Wednesday, September 26, 2012

Quotes | Post 13

I Wish I Had Fully Understood This While Dating Caleb 
& That All Single Women Believed It Because It's True
“I used to think that finding the right one was about the man having a list of certain qualities. 
If he has them, we'd be compatible and happy. 
Sort of a checkmark system that was a complete failure. 

But I found out that a healthy relationship isn't so much about 
sense of humor or intelligence or attractive-ness. 
It's about avoiding partners with harmful traits and personality types. 
And then it's about being with a good person. 

A good person on his own, and a good person with you. 
Where the space between you feels uncomplicated and happy.
 A good relationship is where things just work. 
They work because, whatever the list of qualities, whatever the reason, 
you happen to be really, really good together.” 

deb caletti - the secret life of prince charming


ps.  Happy 49 Days of Sharing A Last Name, Bed and Covenant.  Remember when we were 49 days away?  Seems like years ago.