I Wish I Had Fully Understood This While Dating Caleb
& That All Single Women Believed It Because It's True
“I used to think that finding the right one was about the man having a list of certain qualities.
If he has them, we'd be compatible and happy.
Sort of a checkmark system that was a complete failure.
But I found out that a healthy relationship isn't so much about
sense of humor or intelligence or attractive-ness.
It's about avoiding partners with harmful traits and personality types.
And then it's about being with a good person.
A good person on his own, and a good person with you.
Where the space between you feels uncomplicated and happy.
A good relationship is where things just work.
They work because, whatever the list of qualities, whatever the reason,
you happen to be really, really good together.”
deb caletti - the secret life of prince charming
ps. Happy 49 Days of Sharing A Last Name, Bed and Covenant. Remember when we were 49 days away? Seems like years ago.